Sunday, 20 January 2013

Too Tired

Nope... Not because I'm a bicycle. But because there isn't any energy or reasons for me to continue on.

Why bother with it? Why even care? In the end, when everything is settled, everyone will be gone.

There is no chance that people will stick together forever. No such thing as the so called "BFF" (Best Friends Forever).

Why? Because humans embrace change. They don't like consistency or boring-ness. Though we all grumble and complain when things are changed, but we will get used to it in a blink of an eye.

For example, the changes in Facebook and YouTube layouts. They made a couple of changes ever since the website was introduced to the public. Not just minor changes but MAJOR ones that completely seem foreign to us at first sight. How does the public initially react to this? They pour our they hate in the form of complains towards the company or whoever designed the layout. From the slightest detail to the whole layout, there is nothing that they will agree that they like.

Then what happens? They continue on with life using these websites. Why? Because deep down they know that no matter how much they complain, the change will eventually become part of their lives. The moment when they realize that their complains are just like a baby punching a wall hoping the entire will budge, they will give up and move on.

There is absolutely no reasons for people to NOT embrace change. Changes in life are bound to happen whether we like it or not. It's call life. And life will consists of many stages of life where we meet new people and forget old ones. Yes, sometimes in a new stage of life we still stick with our old friends, but how many stages will they last?

A few more stages and they are probably going to be somebody that you had spent great times with; someone that you thought would be your BFF; someone that you thought you couldn't live without.

In the end, all that is left in a friendships are painful memories to remind us of all the things that define happiness to us at that point of our life. Nothing more. More friendships, more memories, more things to pain ourselves with.

We are humans. We move on. We adapt to change.